Do you know of, or suspect, an elderly loved to be abused, neglected, or exploited? Here are some signs of elder abuse to watch out for and what you can do to make it stop.

Contrary to what many people may believe, elder abuse, or abuse in general, is more than just physical. Sometimes, some signs of elder abuse can’t be found on the body. It may not be so obvious, and the act of abuse is more insidious than you think. 

Elder abuse can be physical, emotional, sexual, and even financial in nature. Oftentimes, it’s people close to the elderly victims who are the perpetrators. This is because as older adults age, they become more frail and therefore more dependent on others. They may not be able to stand up to bullying, manipulation, exploitation, or abuse. They may  not be able to fight back.

If you suspect that an elderly person is at risk from an abusive caregiver or family member, speak up and seek help. Everyone deserves to live safely and have peace of mind. They also deserve respect and dignity.

Signs of Elder Abuse

The signs of elder abuse may be difficult to recognize. Some of the signs may easily be brushed off as a condition related to their age, or due to their frailty. However, it’s important to be more observant. While they may be aging and may even show signs of dementia, it’s important to not dismiss these signs and pay closer attention.

• Warning signs of physical abuse
  • Unexplained signs of injury that may come in the form of scars, bruises, cuts, or welts
  • Broken bones, sprains, dislocated joints
  • Broken eyeglasses or frames
  • Reports or incidences of drug overdose or inability to take medication regularly
  • Signs of being restrained
  • A caregiver’s refusal to allow you to see the elder alone
• Warning signs of emotional abuse
  • Threats
  • Belittling
  • Making the elder embarrassed
  • Talking about their private affairs or gossiping
  • Controlling the elder by manipulative words or by coercion
• Warning signs of sexual abuse
  • Bruises around their breasts or genitals
  • Unexplained vaginal or anal bleeding
  • Torn, stained, or bloody undergarments
• Warning signs of financial abuse
  • Significant withdrawals from elder’s accounts
  • Sudden changes in the elderly’s financial condition
  • Missing items such as cash, jewelry, appliances, and gadgets
  • Suspicious changes in their wills, power of attorney, titles, and insurance policies
  • Suspicious financial activities such as online shopping or ATM withdrawals when the elder is at home or bed-ridden
  • Unnecessary deliveries or subscriptions

There is also what is considered as neglect, which is also a sign of abuse. The signs are as follows:

• Warning signs of elderly neglect
  • Unusual or sudden weight loss
  • Untreated physical problems such as bed sores
  • Unsanitary living conditions
  • Being left dirty and no regard for hygiene
  • Unsuitable clothing
  • Missing their prescriptions
  • Unsafe living conditions
  • Desertion in a public place

When it comes to having someone care for your elderly loved ones, make sure they are trusted, trust-worthy, and knowledgeable about your loved one’s conditions and needs. Talk to us at Blessed Home to know more.