How to Convince an Elderly Parent to Wear Adult Diapers

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Do you find it hard to make your elderly parent wear adult diapers?

Incontinence is one of the most common issues that elderly people and their caregivers have to deal with. While it is common for many elderly people, and maybe your own parent, it’s something not everyone is willing to tackle.

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After all, elderly incontinence is an embarrassing condition. Many seniors find it hard to deal with and accept this. In fact, seniors themselves may choose to ignore this issue and choose to carry on with their lives as normal. However, this can draw more attention to the problem. There’s also the issue of maintaining your elderly parent’s dignity, either way.

Do you have a parent who is experiencing incontinence? Are you having a hard time dealing with them? Do you find it hard to convince them to wear adult diapers?

Here are some tips to help you convince your elderly parent to start wearing adult diapers.

  1. Avoid using the term “diaper.” The word “diaper” is often associated with babies. Therefore, having an elderly parent wear adult diapers gives them the feeling that they are being treated like a baby, which can further make them feel robbed of dignity and independence. Your word choice and tone of voice plays a big part on how you talk to them about incontinence. You may use other more age-appropriate terms such as briefs, pads, and underpants. You may even refer to the actual brand name.
  2. See a specialist. It’s also important to see a doctor. This is because the incontinence may only be a symptom of an underlying condition.
  3. Deal with denial. If your elderly parents prefer to still live in denial, you may try to appeal with their sense of vanity or dignity. Help them see that they are winning their battle against ageism or aging, and incontinence. Help them understand that they can avoid embarrassing situations by equipping themselves against incontinence by adult pants or pads.
  4. Ask for help. You may talk to another trusted family member or friend to help you approach your elderly family member.

It will also help to understand exactly what is stopping your elderly parent from the decision to wear adult diapers. As a caregiver, it is also a must that you help empower them. The right approach when it comes to incontinence can make a big difference in helping make them feel comfortable, clean, healthy, and all the while with dignity.

 

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